From Order To Chaos
“Everything changes except change itself”. These were the words of Mark Twain. I sometimes wonder how he coined these golden words that really define the present and the future. It must have been easy, if you really think about it. Change is something that I have been encountering from the day I came to the US. In fact, I am sure most of my Indian colleagues will accept with me. Of all the new concepts that I have come across, it is the concept of “Thriving on Chaos” that really intrigued me. Let me explain why.
One of the immediate comparisons that I could figure out when I heard of the concept of “Thriving on Chaos”, was the traffic situation in India. The reason being that it is not only confusion and disorderliness that exist on the roads, it is also what Tom Peters had defined chaos to be “Constant Change”. My father, an experienced doctor, has been driving on these roads for the past 25 years and one of the first lessons that he taught me when I took the wheel was to be defensive driver. What he means is that you have to anticipate what others on the road might do and prepare yourself to react accordingly. This means that we have to always be prepared for change. The change might be unexpected and fast. There are no lane disciplines followed- it is quite normal to see an old person riding his bicycle on a “lane” that is meant for buses and other heavy vehicles. You really don’t have to stop when there is red signal. In most of the lanes the “No Entry” board remains plainly as a board. There is no compulsion to wear your seat belts and people hardly follow speed limits. If you try to be The Samurai on the road and stick to rules, you would end up being the bad guy with everyone cursing you and forcing you to “stick to the rules”. Rules are meant to be broken. This situation exists not just on the road. It’s everywhere- from ticket “queues” to the crowd in buses and trains. Buses which have a capacity of holding just 45 people, ply everyday with over 100 people on board. EVERYDAY. It is acceptable to go to a meeting after the scheduled start time. We never really had to turn in things in time.
Well, the beauty of the whole system is that we Indians learnt to accept and adapt to these chaotic situations, everyday of our lives. We never complained. You might argue that it is this passive nature of the public that forces the situation to remain the same. Trust me, it requires a revolution to change the scenario completely. It is possible, though. The change is happening slowly but steadily. But my point here is that we saw a harmony in the chaos. It was our tremendous ability to keep our heads steady when everything around us was going havoc. We hardly found these situations CHAOTIC. But when we arrived in the US and came into the Center for Information and Communication Sciences, Ball State University, for the first time, it was a total change. Yes, we had to turn in to meetings on time. We had to submit assignments on time. We had to take initiative in doing things rather than wait for orders. The system of credits, GPA, online exams were all new to us. Things were changing everyday. We kept discovering new things and new systems. Constant change is what it is. We found this orderliness and systematization to be chaotic.
But I still remember one of the slides that Dr.Jones had shown us during the first day of class – “NO WHINING”. We never did. We fought our way up the learning curve and we are still fighting. It is even tougher for us, but we are taking up the challenge as we are expected to. We did do mistakes, we did fall down. But we learnt to pull ourselves up and dust ourselves and prepare ourselves for the next blow. We did learn from the mistakes. We had to change from arriving to meetings late to arriving on time and eventually arriving early. There is no easy way out and no shortcuts. I write this blog not to find excuses, I write this to just let people understand the kind of culture and chaos that we come from. I wanted to let people know that what might be chaotic to you might be in order to others. I ought to mention that we are finding it very comfortable working with the Americans and they have been very supportive and tolerant to us.
We know and understand that things are going to get tougher. With a total change in the weather expected (we haven’t lived in temperatures lower that 40 degree Fahrenheit), we are going to find it difficult. But I guess, we “mice” will eventually find our way through the maze and open the right door that gets us to the “cheese”. We will find the harmony in this chaos too and will continue to thrive on it
Well, talking of our reaction to the traffic in the US…..what can I say…… its “chaotic”.